Friday, April 3, 2015

Conversation Starter Questions For Couples That Will Give Way For Your Exciting Dialogue

By Iva Cannon


There are very many marriages which have collapsed due to lack of proper communication. In fact, some of the couples rarely talk about issues relating to their marriage. They are busy taking care of other chores such as house work, children, business and their career that they do not even find time to talk. You should not allow poor communication to be the source of problems in your marriage so you should try the conversation starter questions for couples.

Many people are usually willing to talk to their partners but they do not know what to say. First, you can ask your partner to define the meaning of the word love. Most people cannot clearly define the meaning of the word. Your partner must not give you the best definition but it can act as a way of starting a dialogue. You can then know what to say to them based on how they answer that question.

You can also ask your partner about the most embarrassing moment they have had in their life. This make the environment friendlier since most people have been embarrassed in one way or another. In their efforts to explain the nature of embarrassment they faced and the people who were behind that, they will keep you attentive. In fact, they may give you examples of their embarrassing moments for the first time.

Another good way to know about your partner is asking about their background. The upbringing of a person is very important in defining what they become in future. You can ask your partner about their past interactions with their parents and other members of their family. You might find them giving you very encouraging or sad stories about their upbringing that you did not even know.

It would also be enticing to discuss with your partner on the most expensive item that one has had in life. During this time, your partner may mentions a few items such as shoes, bikes, handbags, phones, laptops or games kit among others. This helps you to know what one appreciates most and why they would like to have such items again. This way, you will keep your dialogue lively.

As a way of introducing a very serious topic, partners can discuss interesting topics such as sports. Almost always partners will have different interests in games and sports. When the partners explain why they exhibit differences in their likes, they might lead to a better understanding.

Another good way to start a discussion is asking about your families. If both of you have met the families of each other, you can discuss about how you were welcomed and how well you relate with them. This will help you know whether they would love to visit your family again.

Finally, you can ask a question about your wedding day. If you remember a hilarious moment on that day, ask them to describe it and how it felt for them. You will bring back the memory of the wedding day and the excitement that you had.




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